Thursday, May 22, 2014

Husband proper last night took pity and took in ironing. We sat on the couch Young. Bak asleep. We


Husband proper last night took pity and took in ironing. We sat on the couch Young. Bak asleep. We watched a movie. Apparently normal family scene and I felt guilty. Should I sit around and my man does a "woman's" job. Irrational. But are you sure? How deeply seated in our cultural belief in the division of roles? In today's world it varies linen closet a plus, due to the fact that men are doing more and more Polish homes, but we women put on themselves to each other ties. It's just like when sparing children. Marika wrote about this in his article on learned helplessness. I have the impression that we are alone in the same way we treat our masters. Because we do the same things better, faster, and above all in the way we want them to have done this. We charge on the role of the irreplaceable, and thus enslaved and forever tired. While the film had a lot of time to think. ("Atlas clouds" 172 min.) And my conclusions are not optimistic. She spoils company in my house. Pardoned, postponing until later, but I do what should others. I'm not consistent. It's probably one of my biggest flaws: lack of consistency. Women supposedly perform daily approximately 200 different works, most of them belong to the category - work invisible. Why do not you give me help? Why do I feel guilty when someone is working and I relax myself? I think the time has come for a change.
Komma lika - a game invented by a Swede, linen closet Maria Loohufvud. After Polish: Play in equality. If you want to know more who performs linen closet daily chores, play the game. Is simple. It consists linen closet of two sets of magnets, one for childless linen closet couples (2 colors), the second for those whose progeny is already linen closet big enough to help around the house (4 colors) *. The triangular magnets in several colors symbolize the work done at home. Attaches them to the refrigerator. For each completed task - one magnet. Depending linen closet on the effort that has been inserted - large or small magnet. Otherwise scored a rubbish removal, or walk the dog, unlike many hours compression linen closet at the end of the week we watch a fridge and we already linen closet know who won.
* Hmm ... families who have more than two children? ... Inga problem de ska vara olika! I think, though I do not know the statistics, that in Sweden there is a lot more families with many children. His time was a Swedish television series "Familjen annorlunda" ("other family" and, more loosely translated "unusual" in contrast to the typical 2 + 2, which is probably the most, not counting the survivors and składaków - local plagues of Egypt). This is very lubieliśmy with his wife to watch, because I showed how a variety of families are doing the maintenance, upbringing and other problems. Great series, it's a shame that it ended.
And there are no families that have more than two children? Zażyłeś me this Swedish ... We are such a family składakiem Hahhahha, we have been told the family "paczłorkowa": P, but the compilation is more like it. Apparently the bike-składaki are now very fashionable, so why not family?
Not that I have anything against poskładanym families, because sometimes linen closet in life differently, but in Sweden the play is so common that the stability of marriages linen closet is almost none. The young generations are watching what their parents do, and come to the conclusion that we should not join the union, because the what, when, a few years can fall apart? And so I live in loose de facto unions, and many of them change partners as gloves. I know two women (one is my neighbor linen closet the near), which each have several children (one to five, the other seven) and almost all of these children have a different father. Well, maybe not me to judge, but that until such luzik? Where values? I understand that you can not find the correct right away, but you have to know how to look and not try with anyone linen closet who wants. linen closet
I'm all for durability compounds. I do not like that now anyone can with everyone and people who use it. But why? A book is a book. Language does not matter is a lot of fantastic writers Scandinavia. I would like to be able to read them in the original
Regarding the responsibilities in my house, it always prevails equality. Everything we do together. Our children also have a range of tasks to be performed. And if it is a game that I will not decide on it!
A fun game, take some time to think with a partner are not married linen closet yet, but it seems to me that we both do everything equally linen closet ... Pressing for change, role change diapers, wash time, Toddler bathing together ... Anyhow it was
I remember in college I lived with a friend and told me that the house takes heavy fighting with it to her younger brother, whatever he did. Because her mother thought that, as a boy, this is the only teach and they are made ..... and then grows as

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